24. Apr, 2017

Another 4 Day Weekend well served

Given the opportunity to have another 4-day weekend it seen myself and Audrey take an annual leave day today with Anzac Day to follow tomorrow. Anzac Day is one of my favourite days of the year and it’s probably the only day of the year “public holiday” wise that means something to me, that’s the atheist in me perhaps.

I have sincerely tried to over the years to instil the same value into my boys of the day, in fact I have probably scared them in the earlier years by dragging them out of bed for several dawn services, not only are they generally moving I see it as a small sacrifice on our behalf to what has been sacrificed currently and from our forefathers before us. Over the years, I have also had the opportunity to be sitting in the MCG on Anzac Day to witness Essendon and Collingwood do battle 3 years in a row and it’s hard to separate what gave the more Goosebumps hearing the last post in an eerie silence that is magnified due to the fact that you are sitting with over hundred thousand other people or the fact you bleed red and black and your happy to see your boys play on such a big day. It's truly an Aussie Day of celebration, worship and remebrance said with nothing but respect that the Anzac Boys all deserve, without their sacrafice Austalia would not be the Nation that it is today. 

It’s been another pretty big weekend – “we planted our 20th fruit tree” yesterday and we have just completed our third garden ring, I would hate to think of the dollar value of all the plants and fruit trees we have so far planted but I take solace that we have close to a 100% strike rate so far with our odds being enhanced by all the recent rains – I so can’t wait to some of the plants start taking off and the fruit trees start bearing the bounty of our labour and hard earnt money.

Saturday also seen Beau, Julie and Grahams horse return from agistment and it didn’t take the three horses long to remember each other again “welcome back Beau”.

Today I started to separate the two paddocks again and I hope by next weekend I will have it completed with new white PVC horse wire. We also managed to have a chainsaw day yesterday even Audrey managed to have her bookmark moment, one thing I am sure she would agree on it totally looks easier than what it really is, still I admire her eagerness to have a crack, something about boys and their chainsaws - it brings out the testosterone in us.

It wasn’t all work without play though, we finally managed to try out the new skate park that has recently opened on Saturday night. It was a great reality check for me on “where the bloody hell has my youth gone” once a upon a time I would have torn that ring up – this day in age I managed to knock over a little girl and boy all whilst looking like a baby giraffe on wheels – “did I mention how good the arcade was lol” it was safer in there, my youth never left me when it came to Gallager though……it was great to see Audrey in her element, can still skate she managed to show Maudie and Rupert up amongst three quarters of the other participants. It was a great return to my youth in memory though being reminded of all the old games we use to play whilst listening to great tunes under the laser lights and disco ball. I was actually more comfortable skating with the lights on perhaps it was the hint I needed to leave the rink and disappear into the arcade, I should have taken my skates off though, another embarrassing moment for all that witnessed for me that is.

In closing it was also great to see Rupert and Boris bonding over Boris’s new car which is currently being kept here on the farm. Boris’s also managed to get some valuable driving in using the manual, I must have seen him go up and down our road at least 20 times – each time getting better though.

This weekend has also seen Larry move in (to our city house) temporarily for a couple of weeks and whilst I expect it’s all going to be a little hectic it’s going to be great having all the kids under the one roof. So one more night at the farm, with a couple of hours in the morning to finish off a couple of things then it will be a mad rush home to watch the footy with the kids – “Go the Dons”

“At the going down of the Sun and in the Morning we will remember them” 

21. Apr, 2017

Happy Birthday Moo Moo

This week sees our beloved Moo turn 42

17. Apr, 2017

Cheer's Rupert

Rupert's step father and I sharing a beer at one of Gympie's oldest pubs....

17. Apr, 2017

"Happy Chocolate Egg Day"

Being an avid Atheist I never cared to much for the religion side of Easter, only what I have become to believe in overtime and that is family and the farm mixed together creates the perfect religion. This weekend saw all the kids together again, Graham and Julie of course but we also had special guests - Rupert's mother, step father along with their two young boys.
Without going into great detail Rupert’s Mother and I were married and divorced at a very young age – 21 (married only for 3 Months – Rupert was 3 when we separated). That same year she went onto meet her husband of now who over the years has become a very good friend of mine. I am very lucky that we could reach a great understanding of joint parenthood from a very early point of Rupert’s life and over the 23 years to now we have been able to build a relationship that I am very proud of. Sure, we have had our ups and downs but given the fact my father and mother were also divorced at a young age and can’t been in the same room as each other, I have always been mindful of this. I hold no grudges towards my mother and father for this but one very special thing that did come out of their relationship was it taught me how it feels when this is the case and I think over the years at certain points both of them have lost something out of it, more so my father – so at all costs I have maintained the importance of this throughout Rupert’s life, I want him without any awkwardness at all to be comfortable in the future – ie weddings, births.
The other thing that has helped me to achieve this is of course is his step father who was also raised by a step father so he has also come from a great understanding on how important it is for the nucleus to remain as one when raising a child in between two families. It also hasn’t stopped there I am very thankful that Audrey see’s this for what it is also, and it has been great watching all the interaction this weekend, we have actually all had fun but what’s more it is testament that without ego and a whole lot of love for your child what can be achieved. Whilst this will never be replicated I hope in time that both Audrey’s ex-husband and my second wife and us two of course can build some sort of relationship to enable the other kids to feel the same because there are only losers no winners if we don’t.

11. Apr, 2017

The back drop to a Sunset